Traveling through remote African villages, where dozens of languages and dialects swirl around, can feel like stepping into a whirlwind of sound and mystery. Without a shared language, how do you connect, understand, and truly experience life there? The answer lies in a few simple but powerful communication tricks that have saved me countless times.
My Hand Signal Dictionary That Never Fails
Over twenty years of African travel taught me that hands speak louder than words. In villages where I didn’t know the local tongue, gestures became my first and most reliable language. A smile, a nod, or a simple thumbs-up can break down walls faster than any phrasebook.
When I need directions, I point in different directions with raised eyebrows – the universal “which way?” expression. For water, I cup my hands and mime drinking. Food gets the universal hand-to-mouth gesture. But here’s my secret weapon: I always carry a small notebook with simple drawings. A stick figure next to a car, a bed, food items, and animals. Locals love this approach and often add their own drawings to help.
Eye contact matters too—it shows respect and openness. But be mindful; in some cultures, too much eye contact can be intimidating. Observing how locals interact gives clues on when to look, when to smile, and when to simply listen.
The Magic of Numbers and Money
Mathematics is truly universal. I always carry a basic calculator – not for complex equations, but for price negotiations and basic communication. Show someone the time on your watch, point to food, and you’re asking when dinner is served. Write down numbers for quantities, prices, or distances.
In Botswana, I needed to arrange transport to a remote village. Despite speaking different languages, the driver and I worked out departure time, passenger count, and price using my phone calculator and gestures. Three hours later, I was exactly where I needed to be.
Phone Apps That Work Offline
Google Translate’s camera function is incredible when you have internet, but remote African villages rarely offer WiFi. I download offline language packs before every trip. The voice feature works even without data, and locals are fascinated by the technology.
But here’s what works: photo translation apps with offline capabilities. I take pictures of signs, menus, or written directions, and translate them later when I find connectivity. This has helped me decode everything from bus schedules in Ethiopia to traditional medicine instructions in Zambia.
Learning Key Phrases That Open Hearts
I never master entire languages, but I memorize crucial phrases in local dialects. “Hello,” “thank you,” “please,” “sorry,” and “where is…” form the foundation. But here are the real game-changers:
“How are your children?” in any African language instantly transforms interactions. Family is everything here, and showing interest in someone’s family communicates respect and genuine care. In Uganda, asking “Baana batya?” (How are the children?) opened doors I didn’t even know existed.
“I am learning” is another golden phrase. Admitting you’re trying to learn their language usually results in impromptu lessons and patient corrections.
The Power of Drawing and Writing
My sketchbook has been my most valuable communication tool. When stuck at a roadblock in Madagascar, unable to explain that I needed to reach a specific village, I drew a simple map with landmarks I’d seen. The guard understood immediately and gave me detailed directions through drawings.
Writing works well with Arabic-influenced regions, too. In Sudan, writing numbers, dates, or simple English words often bridged communication gaps. Many people recognize written English even if they don’t speak it.
Building Trust Through Patience and Humor
Here’s what I’ve learned: frustration kills communication faster than any language barrier. When conversations go nowhere, I laugh at myself first. Self-deprecating humor translates across all cultures. Making fun of my terrible pronunciation usually results in gentle laughter and increased patience from locals.
I also learned to slow down completely. Speaking loudly doesn’t help – speaking slowly does. Repeating words differently, using synonyms, and breaking complex ideas into simple parts. In rural Kenya, explaining I needed mechanical help took forty-five minutes and involved me mimicking engine sounds, but it worked.
Technology Bridges with Personal Touch
While technology helps, combining it with human connection works best. I show people photos on my phone – my family, my home, and previous African adventures. This creates common ground before tackling communication challenges.
Videos work incredibly well, too. I have short clips of myself saying basic phrases in different languages, which I play for locals who then help me practice pronunciation. This approach has led to wonderful cultural exchanges and lasting friendships.
Food: The Universal Conversation Starter
Sharing meals breaks down every barrier imaginable. I always carry small gifts – tea, coffee, or sweets from my home country. Offering to share food creates an immediate connection beyond words.
In remote Rwanda, I couldn’t communicate with my host family until I helped prepare dinner. Peeling vegetables together, we developed our own communication system using cooking gestures and taste expressions. By dessert, we were laughing together like old friends.
What I Wish I Knew Earlier
Start learning basic greetings before arrival, but don’t stress about perfect pronunciation. Effort matters more than accuracy. Also, understand that silence is okay. Sometimes sitting quietly together communicates more than a difficult conversation.
Regional languages vary dramatically, even within countries. What works in northern Ghana might not work in the south. Stay flexible and keep learning. Also, written communication often works better than spoken – many people read English or French even if they don’t speak it confidently.
Emergency Communication Strategies
For serious situations, I always carry emergency phrases written in multiple languages: “I need help,” “I need a doctor,” “Where is the police?” Physical demonstrations work for medical issues, like pointing to where it hurts, mimicking symptoms.
I also keep important documents photographed on my phone with translations: passport info, medical conditions, emergency contacts. This has proven invaluable during a medical emergency in rural Mozambique.
Your communication Journey Awaits
Language may separate us, but curiosity, kindness, and a willingness to try can bridge the widest gaps. In Africa’s remote villages, I’ve learned that the best conversations happen when words give way to understanding.
If you have any questions about communicating in remote African villages or want to share your own language barrier stories, please leave them in the comments below! I’d love to hear about your creative communication solutions.
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Sincerely,
Lizzy
I now have a YouTube channel as well!
YouTubeHello Africa travellers!
Who am I? Well, the least you can say is that I am quite crazy about Africa, its nature, its climate, its culture, and more.
As a young woman in my twenties, I had already traveled to several African countries by traveling along in an overlander on my own and mostly camping ( or glamping ) and just fell in love with the diversity of it all.
So much, so that at the age of 26, I went back to university to study biology, which, unfortunately, I couldn’t finish because of health reasons (yes, I got sick from a tropical disease, oh cynicism). But this did not stop my dream of traveling back to Africa several times, and I still do.
My dream was back then to leave Europe and go study animal behavior, especially the elephants (sure, that’s every girl’s dream haha), but I am also very much intrigued by hyenas and other “ugly African animals“.
So, I “kind of” have a little bit of a scientific approach to my articles, when I write about African birds, for example. And most of all: the passion.
But life goes on, you move from one side of the country to the other, you get sick again and top it off with lower back problems, and before you know it, you are over 50 hahaha!
Now, I still travel to Africa, but take it a bit “easier” than the good old camping days, and stay in comfortable, yet affordable accommodations, together with my husband Wouter.
These are some of the countries I have traveled to: Kenya, Tanzania, Zanzibar, Malawi, Zambia, Zimbabwe, South Africa, Namibia, Botswana, Tunisia, and a little bit of Lesotho LOL .
While clearly not being African territory, but Spanish, I also visited Gran Canaria and Tenerife, and location-wise, I consider them “African”, because of their climate and nature, sue me :-p
The last trip I took was to South Africa in the year 2023, and it sure got the fevers for Africa back! From the Barberton mountains to the Drakensberg and the Southcoast, one month wasn’t enough at all to see the whole country, so we’ll be back! At ease and with a little bit more luxury than in my younger days haha!
I wish you happy travels!
Kind regards
Lizzy